It’s the year 2019. Our culture has become a mix of influences from all around the world and from many different decades. We live in a pretty multicultural society which all have a different view of the gentleman. But this doesn’t have to confuse you. There are a few simple key factors which make a modern day gentleman. Hopefully, this post will give you an insight you need. Enjoy your read!

Having a Great Sense of Style

Swag is for boys, a class is for men. A new age proverb created by the internet, but nonetheless true. This quote has some essential wisdom and truth to it. So, what does it mean to have class and style? Well for starters, a gentleman knows what to invest in. Genuine Italian leather backpacks, messenger bags, and briefcases all find their way into a gentleman’s closet.

They know that these high-quality items are an essential part of their closet. A gentleman with style will always choose a leather briefcase instead of a low price case which will rip in a second. This is because gents value quality over quantity.

Just think of Mad Men’s protagonist Don Draper for a second. He is the perfect example of what a gentleman should look like. His style is sharp, suave and subtly powerful. The shades of his suits and the overall look are monochromatic bringing him a timeless and strapping look. But these are the ‘60s we’re talking about. There will be no harm in mixing your style a little with some daring colors like pink, violet or with a patterned shirt.

Suits are what defined a gentleman. Do you remember Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother? What was the phrase he used? Suit up! But as it was mentioned before suits can be replaced with some more casual clothing items like blazers and chinos. Accessories like watches, leather bags and statement sunglasses will always bring an accent on your overall style.

Being Laid Back and having a Good Sense of Humor

Gentlemen have a strong presence. They are always noticed by women and other men alike. They ooze with confidence, a laid back attitude and a devilish sense of humor. Clark Gable in the movie Gone With the Wind reminded us several times that he is no gentleman, but his sense of humor and confidence is what we can look up to.

Gone With the Wind is set in the time of the American Civil War. And those were not easy times. People fled from their homes, there was chaos everywhere and many of the people lost all of their possessions, homes and the people they loved.

But what Rhett Butler (Clark Gable) can teach us is that even in the toughest of times we can learn to see the bright side of the given situation. His witty sense of humor lightens up every bad situation. Although he also had a soft side to him. He wasn’t afraid to show his emotions and that is probably why he didn’t have the difficulty of expressing his humor and a relaxed attitude.

He acknowledged and made peace with his emotions which in return gave him a complete sense of self. And only when we have accepted ourselves with warts and all, can we truly express our wit and become confident. Because, frankly, you shouldn’t give a damn.

Taking Care of your Body

There has been a big increase in the subject of health and fitness in the last decade. It seems as though everyone these days immerses himself in some kind of physical activity. Which is a good thing for many reasons. You stay fit, have a hobby and as a result have a clear state of mind.

Being fit is not just about the looks. Being fit means that you will most likely live a long and healthy life. People who exercise regularly have smaller chances of having high blood pressure, heart problems and back pain. Physical activity will also help you with your posture which is an essential part of being a confident gentleman.

Just think of Guy Richie’s Sherlock Holmes portrayed by Robert Downey Jr. At the beginning of the first movie, we see Sherlock in a boxing pit. The style of his fighting is the gentlemen’s art of self-defense or Bartitsu. This is a perfect scene portraying a clear mental state and control over the situation one can have during physical activity.

A gentleman doesn’t have to announce to the world that he is starting to exercise. Search through the internet to find something that you think you will enjoy. Something that goes along with your lifestyle and something that will at the end of the day make you happy. People will be left discombobulated.

Conclusion

The gentleman race is a dying one, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way. Following these simple principles in our modern age will make you a contemporary gent. Someone who has a great sense of style, humor and is a strong, capable man. Trends always come and go but as we know it class is forever.

Published: 2019-07-02 12:46:52